I'm Lucky I'm In Love with my Best Friend

I find this song very nice. Hehehe...



Do you hear me,
I'm talking to you
Across the water across the deep blue ocean
Under the open sky, oh my, baby I'm trying
Boy I hear you in my dreams
I feel your whisper across the sea
I keep you with me in my heart
You make it easier when life gets hard

I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Ooohh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh

They don't know how long it takes
Waiting for a love like this
Every time we say goodbye
I wish we had one more kiss
I'll wait for you I promise you, I will

I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Lucky we're in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday

And so I'm sailing through the sea
To an island where we'll meet
You'll hear the music fill the air
I'll put a flower in your hair
Though the breezes through trees
Move so pretty you're all I see
As the world keeps spinning round
You hold me right here right now

I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
I'm lucky we're in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday

Ooohh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh
Ooooh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh

M.U. = Magulong Usapan

Wag ka masyado mag-expect…

Wala kayong commitment.

Pwede ka magselos, pwede ka magtampo pero hindi ka pwedeng magalit.

Pwedeng makipagdate sa iba, wag ng magpapaalam.

Pwede mo syang lambingin…

Pwedeng yakapin…

At pagnalaman mong may bf/gf na sya,

Pwede ka umiyak…

Pwede ka masaktan,

Pero hindi mo sya pwedeng sumbatan dahil wala kang karapatan;

Dahil ang M.U. ay isang MAGULONG USAPAN.

-Bob Ong

25 SECRET OF ENDLESS LOVE

1. We remember the moments in life, not the days.
2. Face-to-face conversations don't work by phone.
3. Gifts are not a substitute for caring.
4. People are not yo-yos. Drop them, and they may not return.
5. When kids are ready to talk, be ready to listen.
6. An ounce of love outweighs a pound of promises.
7. You can prepare your children for life, but you can't live it for them.
8. Uncles and aunts are the parents who didn't give birth to you.
9. A strong marriage is the union of two staunch individualists.
10. Turning your back and walking away ends more than just a conversation.
11. Marrying for money is a high price to pay.
12. Yell at your children and get the same in return.
13. If you take things for granted, you won't have them for very long.
14. Caring should be demonstrated 365 days a year, not just on holidays.
15. A well-fed child can still be starved for affection.
16. The most important things a child can inherit are fond memories.
17. Sharing an hour of memories with an elder is often better than a week's worth of medicine.
18. The two greatest time savers are saying, "I don't know" and "I was wrong."
19. Watch your children grow, and they will teach you what you've taught them.
20. Never go to bed before settling an argument.
21. There's a difference between nurturing your children and smothering them.
22. Relationships are built on the little things.
23. If we give our children everything, we deprive them of aspirations.
24. Celebrate holidays as a family.
25. Never stop courting your spouse.

THINGS THAT A PERFECT GUY WOULD DO

1. Know how to make you smile when you are down.
2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.
3. Stick up for you, but still respect your independence.
4. Give you the remote control during the game.
5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.
6. Play with your hair.
7. His hand would always find your hand.
8. Be cute when he really wants something.
9. Offer you plenty of massages.
10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.
11. Never run out of love.
12. Be funny, but know when to be serious.
13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious.
14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.
15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.
16. Call for no reason.
17. Plans a romantic date full of things he wouldn't normally do because he knows it means
a lot to you.
18. Have a creative sense of humor.
19. Help others out.
20. Drive five hours just to see you for one visit.
21. Always gives you a kiss when you leave, even when his friends are watching.
22. Sing, even if he can't.
23. Appreciate you.
24. Stare at you.
25. Smile a lot.

DIFFERENCE OF LOVING SOMEONE AND BEING IN-LOVE WITH SOMEONE

kala ko dati pareho lang ito...iba pala!!
basahin para maliwanagan tayo...

It's definitely different when you love
someone
and when you're inlove with someone"

explanation:

alin nga ba ang mas malalim?

Loving someone or Being in love with
someone?

marami sa atin ang na confuse tungkol
dito.

Ikaw ba ay may girlfriend o boyfriend
ngayon?

Mahal mo ba siya pero parang may isang
tao na
parang mahalaga din sayo.

o may mahal ka na akala mo eh mahal
mo nga siya
pero meron ka pa rin isang tao na
minamahal ng totoo.

Kapag love mo ang isang tao masaya ka..

Feeling mo ok na ang lahat...

pero ang ma-inlove ka, ang siyang
pinakamasakit
sa lahat!

Kasi ang mga taong inlove ay ang mga
taong
ngsasakripisyo at ngpaparaya.

Teka bakit ka nga ba ngpaparaya?

Dahil ba hindi ka niya mahal o dahil
hindi ka
siguradong ok lang sa kanya?

Kung yan ang dahilan mo, walang duda
na
inlove ka
nga sa kanya.

Kasi iniisip mo kung anong meron kayo sa
ngayon
ang tanging mahalaga at kontento ka na.

Pero isipin mo paano kung mawala ang
taong yon
at
talagang hindi na kayo mag-usap at
magkita,

kaya mo ba?

Paano naman kung sayo siya inlove at
ibinigay
niya
ang lahat para sayo pero hindi mo
napahalagahan
ang lahat ng ito kaagad!

Paano kung isang araw naguluhan na
siya sayo ng
husto at maisipang lumayo na lang?

Paano kung sa sobrang pagiging iba mo
sa kanya
di ka na niya kausapin at tuldukan na niya
ng tuluyan
kung ano na ang meron kayo?

Then bigla mong na realize kung gaano
ka-importante sayo ang bawat isa kaya lang
wala na
siya!

Kaya mo ba?

Kung hindi ang sagot mo, malinaw na
inlove ka
nga...

Paano naman pag mahal mo lang, kapag
mahal mo lang,

alam mo na palagi kang may choice,

ayaw mo siyang mawala dahil alam
mong wala
kang ipapalit.

Yung masaya ka sa kanya pero sa gabi
hindi naman siya ang iniisip mo.

Mahal mo siya pero aminado ka sa sarili
mo na
balang araw hindi siya ang pakakasalan
mo. (ouch!)

Mahal mo siya pero ang puso mo hindi
lang para sa
kanya..

Mahal mo at masasaktan ka pagnawala
siya pero
alam mo na kaya mo yon.

Ngayon anong nararamdaman mo
ngayon:

DO YOU LOVE SOMEONE?
or
ARE YOU INLOVE WITH SOMEONE?

Isang araw magigising ka na lang na
INLOVE
ka na nga pero kahit anong gawin mo ay huli
na.

Dahil maaaring yung taong INLOVE din
sayo
ay wala na pala.

Tandaan mo: Masyadong mapaglaro ang
puso
huwag
tayo magpaloko!!!

We learn to love someone pero minsan
lang
dumating
sa atin ang pagkakataong ma-inlove!!!

Kaya kapag dumating ito, ano ang
gagawin mo?

Post mo ulit ito at tulungn natin na
maliwanagan
ang
iba...

Life without Complaints

If you think you are unhappy, look at them

If you think your salary is low, how about her?





If you think you don't have many friends...




If you think study is a burden, how about her?





When you feel like giving up, think of this man






If you think you suffer in life, do you suffer as much as he does?






If you complain about your transport system, how about them?







If your society is unfair to you, how about her?



Enjoy life how it is and as it comes

Things are worse for others and is a lot better for us...

HOW TO CONTROL NEGATIVE EMOTIONS

This would give you guides on how to control your emotions towards your better-half, friends, officemates and all the people around you, especially your 'boss '. The rules of practicing ' ugaling langit, ugaling kaaya-aya' :

#1
Ang naunang magalit ang siya lang may karapatang magalit. Pag naunahan ka na ng galit niya, tumahimik ka na lang muna.

#2

Walang taong nag-aaway mag-isa. Pag hindi kayo sumagot o pumatol, titigil din daw ang taong nakikipag- away sa inyo.

#3

Ang taong galit, 'bingi.' If someone is angry, wala raw pinakikinggan, so, don't try to explain and fight back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil wala siyang naririnig kundi ang sarili nya.


#4

Ang taong galit, 'abnoy.' Ayon sa pastor, Biblical daw ito? because the Lord said when He was crucified, 'Father, patawarin mo sila dahil hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa.' Modern term for these kinds of people are abnoys, so you better not get angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy.


You should also know and realize that the persons who make your day bad are jewels, because you need them for you to mature. Hangga't andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo, ibig sabihin, immature ka pa rin. God will not take away those people; it's for you to take away your bad feelings toward them. You'll know na mature ka na pag dumating 'yung time na hindi ka na naiinis sa mga taong ito because you have learned to accept them and to have patience with them.

#5

Finally, the best part of this is to tell yourself na, because of this person, 'I will grow mature,' and that DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD.

Ahas got from our house.

This ahas is like a foot and half in size.. Ewwe katakot.. Below are the pictures taken after it was put in a bottle.

Scary.. Earthquake..

All are busy on the exile.. Busy on chatting and some on their works. hehehe.. But that time I was just steady on my station thats why I was the one who really feels the earthquake. Mejo na praning ako! hahaha. Tumingin agad ako sa baso , but its so funny kasi wala pala laman un baso ko so di ko macheck if tlgang lumilindol. wahaha.. na confirm ko lng kay Oliver ksi naramdaman din niya.. hayz... Naalog ata utak ko.. tuloy parang hangang ngayon feeling ko lumidol.. But I;m already fine na.. hehehe..

Here is the detail of the earthquake that happen an hour ago:
http://earthquake.usgs.gov/eqcenter/recenteqsww/Quakes/us2008xlam.php#details

Missing my College Friends so Much!

The past few months were so busy. We don't even have time to text , call or chat each other because of our hectic schedule in work. I too got so busy that I haven't update my blog. How I really miss my college life. It was so simple yet so happy.

This is the pictures taken when we have our reunion last Sept. 5, 2008 at KTV Music 21.

All girls cast sing

Italian Food Package

Its like no one have change their looks.. hehehe

The Original Trio

All star cast. = D

Till next time friends!

ZERO fare from Clark to Hong Kong, Singapore, Macau, and Bangkok!

Cebu Pacific (CEB), the country’s leading airline to the ASEAN, will start operating international flights out of the Diosdado Macapagal International Airport (DMIA) in Clark, Pampanga starting November 8, 2008.

Clark is the gateway for central and northern Luzon and CEB’s fourth operational hub. Book your holidays early and avail of our zero fares. We will have daily flights from Clark to Hong Kong and Singapore; four times weekly to Macau; and three times weekly to Bangkok. Cebu-Clark flights also becomes a daily operation starting October 1, 2008!

The Clark Hub seat sale STARTS NOW until September 10, 2008 and is valid for travel from November 8 to December 17, 2008. The seat sale is non-refundable.

Hurry, more than 10,000 seats have been allocated for the Clark hub seat sale!

Book your flights now at www.cebupacificair.com, or call (632) 70-20-888, or visit your nearest travel agent.

Ber Months na!

It is Septemebr 1, and it is the first day of Ber months. It usually reminds people that Christmas is a months away. For sure many Radio Stations will start the Christmas count down. Others will start to decoorate their houses with different Christmas ornaments or lights. Kids will be excited to get their gifts form ninon and ninang. Others will start to have ther Christmas Shopping to avoid getting rush. Few days or weeks from now we will surely feel that the cool breeze of winds and we can see colorful lanterns anywhere in the streets signifying that Christmas is already here.

Excited or not, what matter is that we should be happy and thanful that we still can have a celebration like this despite of many problems in our lives.

ADVANCE MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL

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Cebu Pacific brings back ZERO International fares!

The ZERO fare INTERNATIONAL Seat Sale is back!

Plan your holidays ahead and welcome the Ber-months with our ZERO international seat sale! More than 35,000 seats across 12 international destinations are up for grabs.

Fly ZERO from Manila to Bangkok, Guangzhou, Hong Kong, Jakarta, Kaohsiung, Kota Kinabalu, Kuala Lumpur, Macau, Ho Chi Minh, Shanghai, Singapore, Taipei; and from Cebu to Hong Kong and Singapore.

The promotional sale starts now until August 27, 2008 and is valid for travel from September 16 to December 17, 2008.

The fare is exclusive of taxes, applicable surcharges. Surcharges range from USD 46 to 90 depending on the destination. The seat sale is non-refundable.

Hurry, book now at www.cebupacificair.com!

Mga Kasabihan mula kay Doraemon

Dahil wala akong magawa naisipan ko nlng iblog ang mga kasabihan ng kwelang cartoon character na si DORAEMON...

1. Hindi porke kaya mong gawin ang isang bagay ay dapat mo na itong gawin.

2. Hindi mo dapat iniiyakan ang nakaraan. Isipin mo , bakit nasa harap ang mata? ito ay para lagi mong nakikita ang iyong hinaharap.

3. Mahirap maging matanda. Wala nang mas matanda pa na titingin sa iyo.

4. Wag mong ipakitang malungkot ka sa ibang tao kung wala kang balak magshare ng problema. Para kang nag-alok ng hopia pero di mo naman ibibigay.

going to Cebu again..

I will be leaving tomorrow evening going to Cebu. So I will not be available online until I got home. .

I will again being riding Cebu Pacific Airplane, I just hope that there will be no more delays anymore. hehehe!

For those who will need to contact me, just text me or call me through my smart cellphone number.

Thats all.

Take Care all!

part time job... duh?! whatever!!!

SO yesterday on my way home I received a call from someone intoducing herself as Kaye Cruz working from a US based company "kuno". She told me that I was reffered by ( no need to mention the name) a former office mate, to have the opportunity to have a part time job. That time I don't want to entertain because I am still on the FX on my way home. But she insisted to talk with me for 3 mins.So as respect I then liten to what she is telling me. She ask me what company am I working with and specifically what is my current postion. She then start complimenting me, telling that the one who reffered me to them said that I was so great worker, easy to be with and many more, but she seemed to be complimenting me too much . The call was cut. Then I texted my friend who reffered me "kuno", asking and telling her about the call I received. Then she replied that the call was cut because the girl's fon got low batt, and told me to wait for she will call again. I tried asking my friend what job is the girl reffering to but she didn't answer me instead told me that girl will just discuss it with me. I texted the girl(Kaye) who called me and told her to just contact me when I got home so I would clearly talk to each other.

Not less than a min when I got home ( I haven't even put my bag down) she called again and continue discussing me the part time job kuno. She told me that she has a project and she will be needing people to do it with her without having promblem with the schedule. She continue discussing I just listen and answer what she is asking. Everytime I asked her about the job , she told me that she cannot tell it over the phone instead I must go to their office. So she invited me to have an appointment with her on 15th floor, Octagon Tower, San Miguel Avenue at 6pm today (Friday), wearing smart casual, or business attire. Without thinking I just say yes just to let her stop on making talks. Before putting down the phone she told me that "as I am talking to you, you sounded professional naman eh so I would expect that you will be here 6pm sharp tom".

Too bad for her she didn't know how active I am in seraching the internet. I then search the name she gave to me "Kaye Cruz" and also search the address she gave me. Thanks God I have bad habit of being hesitant going somewhere without the a specific purpose or a clear reason.Anyways, I found out that this was a sort of scam. Here are some of the links I found also telling their same experience.

http://ba.racoma.com.ph/archives/scam-2/
http://magnetic-rose.livejournal.com/523801.html
http://tesstermulo.com/2007/11/23/this-time-theyre-synergy-one-international/
http://dyiele.wordpress.com/2006/10/

I am not against with anyone, I am just posting this so that my friends would be aware. Its up to you whether you will believe it or not. Thats all.

Actor Rudy Fernandez dies

by BOY VILLASANTA
abs-cbnNEWS.com

Actor Rudy Fernandez died at 6:15 Saturday morning at his home in Joeylane Street in White Plains in Quezon City due to a lingering illness.

He was 55.

After years of suffering from peri-ampullary cancer, Rudy succumbed to death in the presence of his wife, actress Lorna Tolentino, and sons Renz Marion and Raphael Fernandez. He also has a son, Mark Anthony, also an actor, with former partner, actress Alma Moreno.

Minutes after the official announcement of his death, people from all sides of showbiz sent the sad news to one another via text or phone calls.

Two days before his demise, Lorna issued a statement that she was ready to accept his husband’s sad fate. “I am entrusting his life to the Lord,” said the actress in her message.

Yet, she hoped that Rudy would still miraculously recover.

During these last few months, Rudy and Lorna were shuttling between the US and the country for medical treatment of the actor’s cancer.

They were recently advised by the patient’s doctors in the US to stay in a Philippine hospital for treatment.

Fernandez was confined at the Cardinal Santos Medical Center in San Juan for almost a month.

Before he was taken home, Senator Jinggoy Estrada, one of Rudy’s bosom friends, said during an interview that Rudy tried to fight his illness but couldn’t hide the real state of his health. He said Rudy’s tummy was already bloated and his eyes and skin were yellowish, all symptoms of the deadly cancer.

The last time Estrada paid Rudy a visit in the hospital, the patient was agonizing. “Hirap na hirap na ako. (I can’t bear this anymore),” Fernandez was heard complaining.

Meanwhile, Senator Ramon 'Bong' Revilla, another one of Rudy’s close pals, and colleagues in the film community, called on the public to say prayers for Fernandez..

Rudy’s final wish was to be laid to rest at the Heritage Park along C-5 in Taguig City.

Revilla told radio station dzMM Saturday that Fernandez's remains were immediately brought to the Heritage Park in Taguig City for the wake.

He said the public can pay their respects at the park.

Fernandez became famous for his action films such as "Baby Ama," and "Markang Bungo."

Fernandez has won best actor awards for his film, "Batuigas...Pasukuin si Waway," and "Victor Corpuz".

Source: http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/storypage.aspx?StoryId=120941

Some Advice... long but worth reading

Advice for the married, planning to get married, single but not available, single and available, no love life.


Eduardo Calasanz was a student at the Ateneo Manila University , Philippines, where he had Father Ferriols as professor. Father Ferriols, at that time, was the Philosophy department head. Currently he still teaches Philosophy for graduating college students in Ateneo. Father Ferriols has been very popular for his mind opening and enriching classes but was also notorious for the grades he gives. Still people took his classes for the learning and deep insight they take home with them every day (if only they could do something about the grades...)

Anyway, come grade giving time, (Ateneo has letter grading systems, the highest being an A, lowest at D, with F for flunk), Fr Ferriols had this long discussion with the registrar people because he wanted to give Calasanz an A+. Either that or he doesn't teach at all...Calasanz got his A+. Read the paper below to find out why.


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PARTNERS AND MARRIAGE
By Eduardo Jose E. Calasanz

I have never met a man who didn't want to be loved. But I have seldom
met a man who didn't fear marriage. Something about the closure seems
constricting, not enabling. Marriage seems easier to understand for what
it cuts out of our lives than for what it makes possible within our
lives.

When I was younger this fear immobilized me. I did not want to make a
mistake. I saw my friends get married for reasons of social
acceptability, or sexual fever, or just because they thought it was the
logical thing to do. Then I watched, as they and their partners became
embittered and petty in their dealings with each other. I looked at
older couples and saw, at best, mutual toleration of each other. I
imagined a lifetime of loveless nights and bickering and could not
imagine subjecting myself or someone else to such a fate.

And yet, on rare occasions, I would see old couples who somehow seemed
to glow in each other's presence. They seemed really in love, not just
dependent upon each other and tolerant of each other's foibles. It was
an astounding sight, and it seemed impossible. How, I asked myself, can
they have survived so many years of sameness, so much irritation at the
other's habits? What keeps love alive in them, when most of us seem
unable to even stay together, much less love each other?

The central secret seems to be in choosing well. There is something to
the claim of fundamental compatibility. Good people can create a bad
relationship, even though they both dearly want the relationship to
succeed. It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good
relationship from the outset. Unfortunately, it is hard to see clearly
in the early stages.

Sexual hunger draws you to each other and colors the way you see
yourselves together. It blinds you to the thousands of little things by
which relationships eventually survive or fail. You need to find a way
to see beyond this initial overwhelming sexual fascination. Some people
choose to involve themselves sexually and ride out the most heated
period of sexual attraction in order to see what is on the other side.
This can work, but it can also leave a trail of wounded hearts. Others
deny the sexual side altogether in an attempt to get to know each other
apart from their sexuality. But they cannot see clearly, because the
presence of unfulfilled sexual desire looms so large that it keeps them
from having any normal perception of what life would be like together.
The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time
friends before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get
to know each other's laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each
other at their worst and at their best. They share time together before
they get swept into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality.

This is the ideal, but not often possible. If you fall under the spell
of your sexual attraction immediately, you need to look beyond it for
other keys to compatibility. One of these is laughter. Laughter tells
you how much you will enjoy each other's company over the long term.

If your laughter together is good and healthy, and not at the expense
of others, then you have a healthy relationship to the world. Laughter
is the child of surprise. If you can make each other laugh, you can
always surprise each other. And if you can always surprise each other,
you can always keep the world around you new. Beware of a relationship
in which there is no laughter. Even the most intimate relationships
based only on seriousness have a tendency to turn sour. Over time,
sharing a common serious viewpoint on the world tends to turn you
against those who do not share the same viewpoint, and your relationship
can become based on being critical together.

After laughter, look for a partner who deals with the world in a way
you respect. When two people first get together, they tend to see their
relationship as existing only in the space between the two of them. They
find each other endlessly fascinating, and the overwhelming power of the
emotions they are sharing obscures the outside world. As the
relationship ages and grows, the outside world becomes important again.
If your partner treats people or circumstances in a way you can't
accept, you will inevitably come to grief. Look at the way she cares for
others and deals with the daily affairs of life. If that makes you love
her more, your love will grow. If it does not, be careful. If you do not
respect the way you each deal with the world around you, eventually the
two of you will not respect each other.

Look also at how your partner confronts the mysteries of life. We live
on the cusp of poetry and practicality, and the real life of the heart
resides in the poetic. If one of you is deeply affected by the mystery
of the unseen in life and relationships, while the other is drawn only
to the literal and the practical, you must take care that the distance
doesn't become an unbridgeable gap that leaves you each feeling isolated
and misunderstood.

There are many other keys, but you must find them by yourself. We all
have unchangeable parts of our hearts that we will not betray and
private commitments to a vision of life that we will not deny. If you
fall in love with someone who cannot nourish those inviolable parts of
you, or if you cannot nourish them in her, you will find yourselves
growing further apart until you live in separate worlds where you share
the business of life, but never touch each other where the heart lives
and dreams. From there it is only a small leap to the cataloging of
petty hurts and daily failures that leaves so many couples bitter and
unsatisfied with their mates.

So choose carefully and well. If you do, you will have chosen a partner
with whom you can grow, and then the real miracle of marriage can take
place in your hearts. I pick my words carefully when I speak of a
miracle. But I think it is not too strong a word.

There is a miracle in marriage. It is called transformation.
Transformation is one of the most common events of nature. The seed
becomes the flower. The cocoon becomes the butterfly. Winter becomes
spring and love becomes a child. We never question these, because we see
them around us every day. To us they are not miracles, though if we did
not know them they would be impossible to believe.

Marriage is a transformation we choose to make. Our love is planted
like a seed, and in time it begins to flower. We cannot know the flower
that will blossom, but we can be sure that a bloom will come.

If you have chosen carefully and wisely, the bloom will be good. If you
have chosen poorly or for the wrong reason, the bloom will be flawed. We
are quite willing to accept the reality of negative transformation in a
marriage. It was negative transformation that always had me terrified of
the bitter marriages that I feared when I was younger. It never occurred
to me to question the dark miracle that transformed love into harshness
and bitterness. Yet I was unable to accept the possibility that the
first heat of love could be transformed into something positive that was
actually deeper and more meaningful than the heat of fresh passion. All
I could believe in was the power of this passion and the fear that when
it cooled I would be left with something lesser and bitter.

But there is positive transformation as well. Like negative
transformation, it results from a slow accretion of little things. But
instead of death by a thousand blows, it is growth by a thousand touches
of love. Two histories intermingle. Two separate beings, two separate
presence, two separate consciousnesses come together and share a view of
life that passes before them. They remain separate, but they also become
one. There is an expansion of awareness, not a closure and a
constriction, as I had once feared. This is not to say that there is not
tension and there are not traps. Tension and traps are part of every
choice of life, from celibate to monogamous to having multiple lovers.
Each choice contains within it the lingering doubt that the road not
taken somehow more fruitful and exciting, and each becomes dulled to the
richness that it alone contains.

But only marriage allows life to deepen and expand and be leavened by
the knowledge that two have chosen, against all odds, to become one.
Those who live together without marriage can know the pleasure of shared
company, but there is a specific gravity in the marriage commitment that
deepes that experience into something richer and more complex.

So do not fear marriage, just as you should not rush into it for the
wrong reasons. It is an act of faith and it contains within it the power
of transformation.

If you believe in your heart that you have found someone with whom you
are able to grow, if you have sufficient faith that you can resist the
endless attraction of the road not taken and the partner not chosen, if
you have the strength of heart to embrace the cycles and seasons that
your love will experience, then you may be ready to seek the miracle
that marriage offers. If not, then wait. The easy grace of a marriage
well made is worth your patience. When the time comes, a thousand
flowers will bloom...endlessly.

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A beautiful piece. Pls pass it on especially to the young people who are starting to get into relationships or are in a relationship. It would save them a lot of heartaches and bitterness down the road.

"Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means you've decided to see life beyond the imperfections. So, don't Say you're happy because everything is alright. Be happy because everything sucks but you're just fine..." >-anonymous

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pangungulangot vs sex.. lols

San nagkatulad ang sex at

pangungulangot

Inusisa ni Totoy ang kanyang tatay.....

Totoy: Bakit po masarap ang sex?

Tatay: Kasi, may kiliti o sensasyon
iyon na
katulad
ng nararamdaman mo pag nangungulangot
ka.

Totoy: Bakit po mas nasasarapan ang mga
babae
kaysa sa mga lalaki sa sex?

Tatay: Gaya ng nasabi ko, ang sex ay
parang
pangungulangot. Kapag nangungulangot
ka, mas
nag-e-enjoy ang iyong ilong kesa sa ang
iyong
daliri.

Totoy: Bakit ayaw po ng mga babae na
ginagahasa
sila?

Tatay: Iyang panggagahasa eh
maihahalintulad sa
naglalakad ka sa kalye, tapos, may
lumapit sa
iyo at kinalikot ang iyong ilong.
Magugustuhan
mo ba iyon?

Totoy: Bakit po ayaw ng mga babae na
makipag-sex
pag nireregla sila?

Tatay: Anak, kapag dinudugo ang ilong
mo,
nangungulangot ka ba?

T otoy: Bakit ayaw po ng mga lalaki na
mag-
condom
kapag nakikipag-sex sila?

Tatay: Ikaw ba eh gusto mong
mangulangot
na may
guwantes ka sa iyong daliri?

Totoy: Bakit po sa pribadong lugar
ginagawa ang
pakikipag-sex?

Tatay: Mangungulangot ka ba sa harapan
ng buong
klase mo? Gago!